Big Reveal: 3 Ways to Tell your Partner about Your Fetish
As you know, there’s no shame in any sexual act you enjoy taking part in. But when it comes to telling your partner […]
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Legs Fetish
Modern leg fetishism has been with us ever since the end of the Great War. After that, skirts began to rise, revealing the calf and then the knee. Thick unflattering stockings were replaced by silk at the same time. Men became sensitized and drawn to the previously taboo feminine charms that, up until that point, were hidden from their gaze.
Like foot fetishism, leg fetishism relies upon many separate areas of erotic interest contained in one part of the female body. The classic fetishistic male experience is to discover, through voyeurism, the visual attraction of legs from the feet upwards until a skirt imposes a barrier that leads to speculation and tension about the hidden portions.
Knees, and then thighs, are discovered by eyes and hands the closer someone gets to the sexual act itself so the exploration of the leg is an essential ritual that forms part of adolescent courtship and necessary erotic education.
Although denim jeans and tailored trousers have replaced skirts in many ways, young women are still encouraged by the seasonal fashion industry to make the most of their legs. Specific clothing and lingerie, designed to take advantage of their intrinsic fascination for men have become more and more specific, with stockings, long-socks and thigh-high boots adding an increasing variety to the ways in which this fetish can be enjoyed.
Enter the MAZE – Vegan Leather by Bijoux Indiscrets
Can you be spiritual and kinky?
The MAZE collection from Bijoux indiscrets allows me to be just that.
“Exciting paths that unveil secret directions with one true end: finding your true self” the packaging reads.
This philosophy certainly conforms with my current spiritual journey. I’m surrendering to the universe and seeing where it chooses to take me. It will lead me, hopefully, into the arms of someone who is as blissed-out and kinky as I am.
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High Heel Fetish
I have always envied women who are able to walk easily and elegantly in high heels without falling over. Sadly, I do not have as much luck as they do. It is very difficult for me to find shoes that combine sex appeal with comfort. The few times that I have gone out wearing high heels have ended up the same way and bruises are something that are never thought of as sexy. Because of my clumsiness, I only wear heels for photo sessions and sex sessions.
Exploring New Fetishes
Even though it was the same model, shot in the same setting by the same photographer, the end result was so different to anything we’d done before. Together we created a ‘voyeur’ set. Our intention was to capture the essence of many fetishes. They include:
Unaji (nape fetish), upskirt fetish, hosiery fetish, downblouse fetish, foot fetish, bra fetish and dangling heel fetish and more.
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The Best Tickle Fetish Toys
In some BDSM kits, the feather ticklers that are included aren’t fit for purpose; they supply a bit of relaxing fun for someone who’s on the receiving end but that’s all. If you want to tickle someone properly then a different kind of equipment is worth considering. Real enthusiasts of tickling do without mundane feathers or little pieces of coloured fluff. They know precisely which tickle fetish toys will yield the desired results. In fact, Mother Nature has amply provided us with a wonderful variety of organic options.
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Holey Hosiery!
Putting hosiery on properly requires delicacy and patience. Special care must always be taken with the thin material to avoid it ripping open accidently. There are things you can do to limit the possibility of damage, of course. Sometimes, no matter how careful you are, those precautions let you down. Getting a ladder in your tights is never less than frustrating
Fulfilling My Foot Fetish Model Responsibilities
Being a foot fetish model is not just about pointing my toes, curving my arches and flaunting my soles. I’ve discovered that it means much more than that. As time goes on, my responsibilities towards my foot fetish fans only seem to increase. Foot fetishists have needs and they are very articulate when they want to express them. Some of them even make specific requests when it comes to provocative foot imagery that I could explore.
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The Art of Playing Footsie (Foot Fetish)
Playing footsie is an ideal way to spice up a romantic dinner for two. It is even better when it is used as a distraction from yet another boring lunch with the in-laws. Footsie is defined as the action of touching another person’s feet, lightly, with your own.
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Summertime Sadness for Hosiery Fetishists
The warm weather has arrived, finally. I can appreciate the increased exposure of firm cleavages and long bare legs to greedy eyes on
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An Afternoon of Foot Worship
‘Sit down and close your eyes’, he says, pointing to a black leather sofa. I obey, a little surprised that he wants to
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Venus O’Hara’s Official Calendar 2015
Most official calendars require a lot of preparation and although mine was no different (I stayed up until 6am to finish it), there
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The Benefits of Bondage Tape
I love playing bondage games and I take great pleasure from the care and attention that has to be put into perfecting some
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Seductive Soles (Foot Fetish)
Photos: Lourdes Ribas I’m still discovering the world of foot fetishism and I’m doing my best to cater to my foot fetish fans
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Naked with Heels
Photo: Lourdes Ribas I went on a date recently with a potential sub. I was really looking forward to it until he begged
Bondage for Lazy Lovers
Sex isn’t always mind-blowing, and if you only like explosive sex with people that you’re really attracted to, then as a singleton, you
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Ankle Fetish
There is a primitive thrill associated with properly applied ankle restraint. The heady eroticism that is experienced through it can often be combined
Going Commando
I was pleased to discover recently that I was the proud owner of four hundred pairs of panties even though I prefer to
Cyberslave: My New Short Film
Cyberslave is a short film that tells the story of a struggling dominatrix and her relationship with Slave X. It explores the dynamics
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blindfold Fantasies
It was just recently that a good friend made an observation about my fetish for blindfolds. “It seems as though the main reason
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Loving Latex and Leather
Latex and leather don’t usually go together. They are completely different fetishistic materials but are just as significant, in their own way, as
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Vintage Striptease
I bought this vintage dress because it seemed so innocent. It was almost the thing a puritan might wear to church. That thought
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Tights Fetish
The tights fetish is back where it belongs – on the high street, in the fashion magazines and being flaunted by women of
The Masochism of Modelling
People assume that posing in front of a camera must be easy work. It is, but there is also a certain amount of
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How To Be A Good Slave
Being a good slave is not easy. Even the best ones slip up sometimes and make mistakes – sometimes intentionally. For the first
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Going Braless Can Be Fun
Back in the day-when I was still at university-I was the definition of a poor student and my best friend was the same.
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Upskirt Fetish
The upskirt fetish has never been as popular as it is today, I found this out for myself, accidentally, in London a few
Choosing the right panties
It’s never easy to choose the right panties to wear for the day ahead. Sometimes it’s impossible to choose sensibly, especially if you’re
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Wet Stockings
There’s nothing like the feel of wet stockings clinging to your legs. After you’ve stepped into a puddle-and got your chosen hosiery soaking
See Through Clothing Fetish – Venus O’Hara
See-through clothing is any garment made with lace, mesh or sheer material that allows the wearer’s body or underwear-if any-to be seen clearly
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The Joy of Going Down – Venus O’Hara
There’s no secret to the best way of getting a blowjob. If you want one, guys, you can’t just expect to get it
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My Fishnet Fantasies – Venus O’Hara
Fishnet fetish has made its own niche in the world of sexual fetishism as a significant kink with unique associations. Fishnets is hosiery
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Thigh-high fetish
Thigh-high boots are considered by many to be erotic or kinky. They are used as fetish clothing in boot fetishism and shoe fetishism.
Hoodie Fetish
The hoodie fetish went mainstream on every news channel, in every country, this summer. Between 6th and 10th August, numerous London districts and
Cleaning Fetish Confessions – Venus O’Hara
After a long day at work, cleaning is the last thing on anyone’s mind. It still has to be done though and many
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The Act of Spanking – Venus O’Hara
The act of spanking consists of one partner striking the buttocks of another with a bare hand to cause temporary pain and erotic
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A Polyfetish Dream
I’m a polyfetishist and it must seem like I’m being promiscuous with my affections towards different kinks. A lot of monofetishists seem to
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Bathroom Bondage
The following images were styled and produced by myself to illustrate my book LOVE ME LIKE YOU HATE ME, written with Erika Lust.
Trying to Walk in Fetish Heels – Venus O’Hara
The height of a female dominant’s heels is a particularly valuable device for emphasising her superiority in a BDSM relationship both physically and
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Ripped Tights Fetish
It came as a surprise when I received requests for a photo-set based on the fetish of ripped tights. I had no real
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The Difficulty of Walking in High Heels – Venus O’Hara
I cannot walk in heels to save my life and I really envy women who can. My shoe-shopping is always very limited. Often
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My Love Hate Relationship with my Legs – Venus O’Hara
I’ve had a love-hate relationship with my legs over the years. I was very self conscious when I was about twelve, I started
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