Going Commando
I was pleased to discover recently that I was the proud owner of four hundred pairs of panties even though I prefer to […]
Some fetishists prefer women’s panties to any other fetish object. Their eroticisation of this underwear can encourage behaviours which can include the collection and sharing of printed or electronic material depicting the accidental exposure of panties-usually of a softcore variety-or direct sight and physical contact, usually of an explicitly sensory nature like stroking or sniffing. Many like to buy worn panties. It is not usually the display of nudity that a modern panty fetishist is interested in but the concealment of it by tight-fitting-usually white-cotton panties. Although other fabrics and styles are part of this fetish, they quickly give way to the classic look. A particular fetish highlight can be an elastic waistband, pulled up tight so that the shape of the female genitalia can be seen in explicit detail through the panties. This is described as the “camel-toe” look. It is in the “panty flash” that the real significance of this kink can be found. Instead of wanting to enjoy prepared images of panties exclusively, some fetishists prefer to imagine a young woman accidentally providing them with a real glimpse of her panties. This might only last for an instant. This illicit thrill, often anticipated but only occasionally enjoyed in public amongst oblivious crowds or passengers, continues to inspire powerful panty fantasies.
I was pleased to discover recently that I was the proud owner of four hundred pairs of panties even though I prefer to […]
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The following images were styled and produced by myself to illustrate my book LOVE ME LIKE YOU HATE ME, written with Erika Lust.
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