Sex & Relationships

She was tired of pretending. Tired of half-hearted texts. Tired of men who flirted just to feed their egos. Tired of dating apps […]

In a world that is steadily becoming more open and accepting of diverse expressions of sexuality, many people are reclaiming the right to

In the realm of sexual wellness, the integration of hemp and cannabis products has emerged as a promising avenue for enhancing intimacy, pleasure,

Intimacy is deeply connected to more than just physical attraction—it’s influenced by emotional well-being, mental clarity, and how relaxed and present you feel

The foundation of intimacy is built on trust, vulnerability, and open communication. Many people think of intimacy as something purely physical, but true

Flirting over the phone is a delightful way to build connection, express interest, and develop rapport with someone you’re attracted to. In a

As technology continues thriving, internet users continue to welcome new social apps. Among the recent ones that blew up was OnlyFans, a London-based

Want to make things more exciting in the bedroom? Adding sex toys for couple can be a fun change! If you’re new to

There is a significant gap between people’s points of view when it comes to the subject of sex dolls. Others consider them to

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In the realm of wellness and self-care, CBD (cannabidiol) has rapidly gained popularity for its potential health benefits. From reducing anxiety to managing

Is the color of a sex toy important? It most definitely is! That’s why we spend a lot of time trying to find

Strap-ons turn the rules of the game on their head. It completely changes erotic dynamics and that’s one of the main reasons why

Embarking on lifestyle enhancements as a couple can be an enriching journey that strengthens your bond and broadens your horizons. Whether you’re newlyweds

In today’s fast-paced digital age, the art of conversation is evolving rapidly, and chat lines have emerged as a popular platform for meeting

  CBD, short for cannabidiol, has gained significant popularity in recent years as a natural remedy for various health conditions. Derived from the

The moment you enter your 50s, you will come to realize that the dating pool has dwindled for people your age. Almost everyone

Cultivating healthy sexual relationships with women can be difficult.  Unless you have a lot of experience sexually, you’ll likely struggle a great deal.

Understanding and Supporting Student Sexual Orientation In the dynamic landscape of 21st-century education, the understanding and support of student sexual orientation is no

It is a very common opinion that many problems in people’s lives are caused by a lack of education. The statement can be

When it comes to students and protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs), there are important problems and precautions to be aware of. Yet,

Do you want to look more attractive? Changing your beauty routine with dermal fillers can give you the results that you’re looking for,

Although it might not seem to be the case, a great and healthy sexual life is an important part of any relationship. While

Massages are great. But some are better than others. I love all types of massages. Relaxing, sports, Thai, tantric and even erotic. Most

Is having a sex doll a harmless personal choice or a morally questionable act? Sex dolls have been a controversial topic for many

If you or someone you know is facing domestic violence, it can be difficult to know where to turn for help. You may

Whether you have been together for months, years or decades, your sex life is likely to have ups and downs. Ask anyone in

A woman’s life is filled with many responsibilities and demands. In order to keep things exciting, finding ways to add some spice to

It was March 2018 and I was wondering how I was going to pay the rent of my new penthouse apartment in Barceloneta,

A lot of people seem to think that the only way to be happy is when you are in a relationship, but that’s

Sex plays an essential part in a relationship – it gives you and your partner a chance to get closer, have fun and

As men age, they may experience a decline in their testosterone levels. This can lead to decreased energy, libido, and muscle mass. Luckily,

  Featured Image by Zoe on Unsplash Seeing these two concepts together may startle some, but you would be surprised at how connected

I’ve really enjoyed the last couple of days, devouring content on Beducated, an online platform that hosts an array of sexual wellness courses

Have you ever used a water-based lubricant? If not, you’re missing out! The reason this type of lubricant is so special is that

Medically reviewed by: Dr. Kimberly Langdon (M.D) on 13 November 2021.   The following material may not be apt for young audiences, since

Our sex life is an important though often overlooked part of our life. Whether you are in a relationship or enjoying a single

No one knows your body better than you. We all have a natural instinct that tells us what we need and want. But

To this day, there are still a lot of myths surrounding motherhood and sexuality. The common misconception is that women tend to be

They say that you should be careful what you wish for. And not because you just might get it, as the Pussycat Dolls

  Intimacy is important in every relationship. When intimate time is lacking, both partners can feel lonely and disconnected from the other. This

  The proportion of men want to improve their own and their partners’ enjoyment and contentment during sexual activity. Focusing solely on sex

Online dating is all the rage. To some, it may sound awkward, and a tad weird, because you’re meeting strangers. Some people meet

1 day, 2 days, 3 days…1 week, 2 weeks, 3 weeks…1 month! Okay, it’s safe to say: Houston, we’ve got a problem! You

Penis size matters for more reasons than many people understand. It’s linked to a guy’s self-confidence, even his self-perception. And while most men

Sex toys were created many years ago. Experts believe that sex toys were even used more than 20.000 years ago. Strangely enough, using

Image: Shutterstock   Since the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, people have been having less sex. But this isn’t to say that people’s

Image Source Interesting Facts About Masturbation For Men If there’s one topic that most men can relate to, then that is masturbation. Many

The bedroom is the cynosure for romantic activities. And the way you choose to design yours matters a lot. Certain aspects of your

Ever wondered what it’s like to work as a male escort? How these guys romance the ladies? And what they do day-to-day? Well,

Tantra and the Art of Slow Sex   When people think of tantric sex, they often think of long, slow sex sessions with

I’ve been receiving lots of messages from my followers with their questions about sex toys, female orgasm and sexuality in general. Given that

“Why is it OK for you to have loads of sex toys but you wouldn’t like it if a man had a sex

Being a swinger has never been easier. With so many free dating sites out there, hooking up can be as easy as exchanging

Tinder, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat… So many ways to interact and communicate with people online. Global digitization has been rampant in today’s world, which

Hi! My name is Erica and I’m an expert in the art of tantra and also a writer at London based tantric massage

Words matter. Especially when it comes to seduction. I used to love going on dating sites and apps whenever I had gone for

‘I can’t stop thinking about an older man.’ I confessed. My friend raised his eyebrows in disbelief. ‘But much older than you. A man in his eighties.’ I specified. My friend burst out laughing, not quite believing what he was hearing.  But I didn’t. I was being very serious, so I decided to elaborate. His age and experience not only accentuate my youth and beauty, but he also makes my clitoris throb uncontrollably. His formal nature that is typical of his generation is a total turn on. But I want to encourage him to forget the formality and do what he has always craved and never dared to do.

Did you know that masculine beauty can improve female friendships? Now, isn’t that a wonderful thing?

I was pondering that idea when I discovered Cheeky Butlers in the Buff in Marbella Banus. Their service is a fantastic way to invest in your friendships while extolling the numerous virtues of the male body.

She was the first woman that I had ever been intimate with and she made me question my sexuality. I felt a desire for her that I hadn’t felt for a man since my first love. I couldn’t get enough of her and when we walked along the street, hand in hand, I felt like the luckiest woman in the world. Even a simple thing like watching tv, snuggled-up on the sofa, was highly erotic, especially when our hands inevitably started to wander across each other’s bodies again.

Live, Learn, Share, Inspire. This is the philosophy that underpins my work. Unfortunately, the things that I have to share are not always orgasmic. Some of them can be very much the opposite, in fact. Having to live with machismo is one of them. If I had to be more specific, I would term it the wilful abuse of masculine power. It is something I have experienced and I feel that I have to share my observations of it.

Sex dating is getting increasingly popular, thanks not only to the internet but also to people’s mentalities getting more progressive over time. You might be at a point in your life right now where you’re not with anyone but you still desire some sort of company, or simply put you’re just looking at getting laid without the hassles that relationships can bring onto the table. So maybe sex dating could be a good thing for you, but before you jump into it there are a few rules that you should know to make your quest for sex easier and more successful.

Is it a sin to be unfaithful?

Although I do not practise any religion, every time I have an orgasm convinces me a little more that there must be a higher power. Besides, whoever I am in bed with, and whatever their name is, the name I loudly proclaim during my moments of ecstasy is ‘God’, as in ‘oh my GOD!’

It was supposed to have been the trip of my lifetime. A week in a five-star hotel in the Caribbean. The sea views were supposed to be amazing. One whole week of premium chilling out, only to be interrupted by great sex-sessions with my amazing boyfriend at that time. As I crossed-off the dates on my calendar, I became more and more excited about it. What could possibly go wrong?

Why Don’t Women Make the First Move?

This is a topic that came up during an English Language Workshop that I gave in Barcelona a couple of years ago. It was to a group of lesbians, which made a change. I had just got to the end of the workshop when a girl raised her hand. I smiled and nodded to her.

“Aren’t you going to teach us some techniques for making the first move’ She asked “You know, tips for pulling?”

When I was 20 years old, I thought that reaching the age of thirty and being single would be a disaster. At that age, I speculated that my body clock would be ticking louder than ever. Back then, each time I had sex I would be wondering if the man I was with could be a viable candidate for being the father of my children. Now that I am in my thirties, however, my opinion about this has changed completely.

Sex blogger Sacrifices

I like to imagine that I’ve got the best job in the world and I probably have. It has been 7 years since I established my website. Now I work full-time as a sex blogger. My job has several obvious advantages: free sex toys, complimentary lingerie and most importantly, no alarm-clock in the morning. When I am at a party with other professionals and it is my turn to explain what I do, I always end up impressing them by having the coolest job of anyone by far. It does not really matter that it is not the most well paid.

“You’re really loud today” someone once informed me in the middle of the sex act. Louder than normal? I pondered this when I recalled the shuddering orgasm that I experienced a few minutes earlier. Yes, it had been louder. This was partly because I was really into it at that moment. On further reflection I had to concede to myself that my increased volume was more to do with the fact that I was in a hotel room.

I had always wanted to try strap-on sex. This was due to the simple fact that I could determine the size, the texture and the design of the fake phallus that would be attached to it. For me, the most important thing about a real penis is not it’s size per se. It is my preference that it should be absolutely rigid when it matters most. I always imagined that a strap-on must be fantastic for this very reason because its perpetual stiffness was guaranteed. I was intrigued about using one with another woman, especially because I could both give and receive its pleasures. Fortunately, I have a female friend who shared my curiosity.

The main reason I do not watch porn comes down to personal taste. I would always choose erotica over porn. My preference is for a well-written script interpreted by talented actors as opposed to real sexual positions adopted by porn performers. I suppose that I want to put my own imagination to work. In mainstream porn, imagination is seldom required. The monotonous gynaecological close-ups do nothing for me, I have to say. I do not find them overly explicit as much as I consider them standardised and boring.

“Goodbye” I whispered to my beloved sofa as I saw it being pushed out of my front door by three Italian students. For many, a sofa is just a piece of furniture that you relax on to watch television or have a nap on. But I have never had a single siesta on my sofa, even though I live in Spain. To be honest, I have not mastered the art of it. Nor have I watched television on my sofa because I don’t have one. For me, my sofa was a place to recline after a long day or, most importantly, it was my favorite place to have sex.

Lesbian porn isn’t the same as ‘porn for lesbians’ or ‘porn for bi women’. Lesbian porn is, without doubt, focused on the needs of the male spectator with its obsessive focus on close-up, gynaecological shots and surgically enhanced actresses with long, fake nails that look like claws. That detail in particular is a big no-no when it comes to sex between women. Another, typical feature is an overemphasis on the use of sex toys like dildos and harnesses. During my sapphic era, it would never have occurred to me to sit on a sofa and lick a dildo with another girl but that scenario is sadly typical in lesbian porn.