I remember scrolling through social media on International Women’s Day and seeing countless posts from female creators celebrating other women—women who had inspired them, their families, and their personal journeys. It made me reflect on what I could contribute to the conversation.
But then I thought, I don’t want to do what everyone else is doing. As a natural rebel, I like to go against the grain. More importantly, for me, every day is Women’s Day, and every month is International Women’s Month.
So, in this post, I want to celebrate female empowerment in a way that truly resonates with me.
Why I Chose Pleasure Activism
I chose the path of pleasure activism because, during my university years studying feminism, I specialized in gender equality. I was deeply concerned about equal opportunities rather than just equal conditions.
However, the topic of gender equality is vast, and I realized I didn’t want to spend my time focusing on causes that might leave me feeling drained, frustrated, and depleted—because, let’s be honest, there’s a lot to be frustrated about.
That’s why I turned to pleasure and intimacy as my area of focus. Even though this domain has its fair share of challenges and pain, it also holds an immense potential for joy, healing, and empowerment. This is the essence of pleasure activism—shifting the narrative from struggle to self-discovery and empowerment through pleasure.
I wanted to make a tangible impact on women’s lives because I know firsthand how transformative pleasure can be. When I discovered the ability to reach orgasm on my own, it opened so many doors. It changed the way I made decisions in relationships, boosted my body confidence, and gave me a newfound sense of self-worth and empowerment.
And of course, the more connected you are to your body, the more you can enjoy intimacy—whether that’s with someone special or just someone who’s right for right now.
Celebrating Pleasure All Year Round
One brand that truly embodies female pleasure beyond just Women’s Day or Women’s Month is Tracy’s Dog.
I first discovered their products in 2018 and was immediately intrigued by the brand name. At first, I found it odd—I’m not a dog lover myself—but I later learned that the name originated from a team member named Tracy who had a beloved office dog. Dogs are loyal, and if there’s one thing I can say about these products, it’s that they have stood the test of time in my collection.
Not only that, but my first-ever squirting experiences happened thanks to Tracy’s Dog toys—specifically, the OG Flow and Ducky. Their products have unique, ergonomic designs that I haven’t seen with other brands. They’re not just aesthetically pleasing—they feel incredible.
My Top 3 Tracy’s Dog Products
Surreal – A bullet vibrator shaped like a lipstick, complete with a lid—making it perfect for travel. It’s made of soft, flexible silicone, which allows for circular or side-to-side movements, mimicking a more human-like touch. The tapered tip is ideal for precise clitoral stimulation, while the flat tip can be used for broader sensations. You can even roll it over your body for a gentle massage. It’s one of my most-used products this year.
OG3 – A multi-functional toy that’s two devices in one and can be used separately or together. It stimulates both the G-spot and clitoris, with a flexible internal arm that can also be used externally. The clitoral stimulator is incredibly gentle yet effective and can even be used for nipple stimulation. Personally, I love using the two elements separately—sometimes as a clitoral vibrator, sometimes as a G-spot massager, and sometimes just the air pulse stimulator alone.
Pockety – A handheld ergonomic vibrator that fits perfectly in your palm. While it’s designed to be worn inside underwear, I prefer using it as a body massager or clitoral stimulator. The protruding knob allows for side-to-side or circular movements, creating a sensation that feels much more natural and intuitive. It combines the best of human-like touch with powerful deep vibrations, making it one of the most versatile toys I own.
Pleasure is for Every Day, Not Just Women’s Day
Out of all the toys I’ve tested over the years, these three are my absolute favorites. Not just because they suit my personal preferences, but because together, they offer an incredible variety of sensations. Owning just these three products is already a fantastic start to a year-round pleasure journey—not just on Women’s Day, but every single day.
To celebrate International Women’s Month, Tracy’s Dog has put together special bundle offers—you can find more details below. Plus, you can use my discount code VENUS for 15% off anytime, which can be stacked with other offers!
Happy International Women’s Month!